Whatâs your name?Â
Lil Sexy
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What part(s) of the industry do you work in?
Strip Club
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How did you get started in the industry?
One day I woke up and realized who and what I really am, and what Iâm capable of. It was like a light went off, it just ~clicked~. It was divine inspiration.
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What's your zodiac sign(s), and does it/they resonate with you?
Iâm an astrologer aside from sex work, I have a strong Capricorn stellium that is connected to my 10th house Pluto. Power exchanges coupled with a natural affinity for work partnerships and clientele have been at the forefront of my success, it absolutely does resonate with me.
Tell us about your favorite shift or customer ever!
I once had a customer who was immediately intoxicated by me. Told me he loved me and couldnât live without me. He moved mountains to make sure that I was handled like the pretty pretty princes that I am. The reason why he was my favorite customer is because he taught me the true power of hormones and how to harness them for good. I had never believed that working during my cycle would have yielded me such wonderful results, so I always avoided it. I kept reading and hearing about this natural phenomenon, so I gave it a try. Iâve never had a customer so enamored before. It was what I learned on that shift that truly sticks with me.
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Do you have any pets? We love pets, please tell us about them!
I have four black cats and theyâre all unique lil jerks! My oldest Tuxie is the brawn, he likes to check the house for predators and watch the other cats while they sleep. His girlfriend is Trixie, she lounges around while he brings her snuggles and baths like the queen she is. The we have Ghostie, my house panther full black kitty. He's a huge follower and gives into peer pressure, canât think for himself to save his lil life. The youngest is starry, I found her in a bush as a newborn and she is the whiniest baby ever as an adult! Complete Velcro kitty. My house is a jungle kitty house though I love working hard to provide for them.
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How have you made yourself stand out when working?
I use my astrology tools and my psychology degree to personalize an emotional experience for the customer. I let them understand how seen and how heard they are, how safe they are with me. This has resulted in some deep bonds and truly caring sugar daddies.
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What are some of your favorite things and hobbies outside of work?
I enjoy reading, spirituality, meditation, tarot card reading, and exercise. Working out is by far my biggest stress relief. Relying on the spiritual, trusting in the spiritual and the 4D has given me competence and patience beyond my years. I also enjoy 35mm film photography, itâs truly a blessing to have found this beautiful medium.
What is a goal youâre proud you were able to reach while doing and because of SW?
Self acceptance and self concept. I truly did not understand or find joy in myself until I realized that my entire body, my mind, my persona is so powerful that people are willing to pay just to experience it.
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What is something you feel needs to change in the industry?
We need to stop hiring men in the industry who are suppose to protect us but they have ulterior motives, like dating us. This creates drama within the workplace at best and an unsafe toxic work environment at worse.
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There is a lot of talk nowadays about sex work being âempowering.â Is this true for you and why or why not?
Speaking for myself, I believe it has empowered me yes. But any baby or aspiring strippers will need to understand that with empowerment is also trauma. You can be equally traumatized and empowered by this industry.
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What is your best tip for making money at work?
Work during your cycle! Just do it! And always begin by trying to investigate the mind and heart of the customer. This has always been my go-to!
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What's your favorite colors / styles / accessories to wear at work?
Any and everything pink and skimpy. Angel candy has the skimpiest legal bottoms I can buy while staying in place which is a big plus! I always wear jewelry, customers seem to be partial to my multiple anklets.
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ï»żHow can customers make you feel spoiled, appreciated, and respected?
Shower me in money lol but also only have eyes for me. Tell me how much you want me, respect me, have been dreaming about me. Then shower me again.
What has been your biggest challenge in the industry and how do you cope with that?
My personal biggest challenge has always been weed and cigarette smoking in the club. As someone who has decided as a life goal to avoid any outside toxins, I feel like Iâm always navigating this hurdle. Most customers are kind about it, but some can be downright cruel. I cope by asking kindly if they can put it out âso I can hold you closeâ. Usually it works lol
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What do you wish people knew about us, and about you personally as a SWer?
We are all human. We all have side hustles, we all have hobbies, hopes, dreams, aspirations. Weâve all made good and bad choices, but end of the day we are all people who are aspiring to beauty and love every single day. We are inherently a positive for the world, because our goal is to bring joy. We want love, acceptance, respect, and understanding. Every stripper has a dream and a side business. Ask us about our side business! Weâll be happy to chat about it.
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How have you dealt with the stigma of being out as a SW, if youâve faced any?
I simply donât care. That is however a privilege. Anyone who judges isnât healthy for me, so they have to go.
What are your plans for the future (can be related to the industry or not!)?
I would love to teach astrology to all sex workers, because itâs a valuable tool for so many aspects of life that includes the workplace, customers, and money making potential. It would be a grand undertaking because I have learned many of the older techniques that arenât as popular on social media, but I would love to teach classes and gone other SW this knowledge. I also would love to open a film photography studio that caters only to SWers.
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Where can we find you?
Instagram lil_sexy_bella
Thank You, Lil' Sexy! đ