APRIL 2023: Jade 💖

Stripper / SWer & OF content creator.

My first time in a strip club was my audition, the rest is history 💋

My favorite customer ever comes in & spends literally so much money, isn’t creepy at all, gets dances & gives me way more than what I tell him…I call him my cowboy 🤠 (cause he wears a cowboy hat) YEEHAW 😝

Omg! Yes! I have 3 animals, 2 cats & 1 dog. All mutts too, lol. 1 of my cats has been with me since I lived back home, has moved out with me and been with me ever since. My dog is actually my gfs dog, however, he is OUR dawg now 🥰 my youngest cat is a runt. He is also polydactyl so he has extra toes.

Besides my booty being the center of attention, CONFIDENCE. Confidence is key to standing out in this industry…aside from Angel Candy outfits, I swear by Angel Candy microkinis 😝

So I was giving this dude a dance, he usually comes in and gets one or two dances so I pretty much know what to expect. However during these dances he is literally moaning like a girl. I swear to god, like a wimpy girl. It makes me laugh so I have to turn around and shake my a** so he doesn’t see me laughing. Lol

Fun fact about me: I’m a nail artist outside the industry. I specialize in detailed art & XXL nails. Besides that, I’m usually relaxing at home, out in nature, out at a restaurant or cooking good food.

Being part of this industry, it has helped me feel so liberated both sexually and financially. Expressing my sexuality & being unapologetic about it.

How we treat our girls. The fact that these clubs act as if the girls don’t mean anything & that they are just replaceable. It’s ridiculous because in reality, no customer would come in if the girls weren’t there. They come to see US! They come for the entertainment that we provide. The fantasy they crave, we give that to them, so why not treat us accordingly.

This is kind of the same answer, but whatever. Yes, it’s so empowering. Sexually liberating & all. It’s a major confidence boost. Don’t let any rejection make you think otherwise cause at the end of the day, they still come in to see me dance.

Okay, so I know we all get discouraged when we are rejected by a customer but what we need to realize is some men literally come into the club just to reject females since they can’t do it in their real life. So go up to EVERYBODY. Talk to them, stop w/ the resting bitch face, because that’s not sexy/cute to a customer. They want to see you enjoying yourself at work. Same w/ on stage. Dancing w/ a bitch face is not it bby! Smile while you’re dancing, even just a little bit. I really enjoy being on stage so it’s not hard for me to just smile & wave, lol. Also, don’t do a dance if they aren’t willing to pay your price, yes, you are allowed to go down in price if you feel however, know your value because once you know your value, everyone will & they will respect that.

Other than the most obvious way…giving me money. Actually listen to my rules when I’m dancing & respecting my boundaries.

I would have to say my biggest challenge in this industry would be wanting to work all the time, and then not wanting to work at all. It’s like once I make an ex amount of money on a shift, I won’t want to go to my other shifts. But I always keep in mind that not every shift is the same. Every shift I leave with a different amount of money. Sometimes more sometimes less. I just have to keep the grind going if I want to keep growing my savings account.

Lala. I swear after working at my first club, which is actually my current club. My second club had a dancer named Lala. I swear she was the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, her body, her face, her energy. Not only that, she was a tourist just like I was. I was obviously a baby stripper and to me she was like a mama stripper. But I swear, she did not look like no mother. Seen her on stage, seeing her in her outfits, it was magical. She was my biggest inspiration. I still follow her on social media and keep up with her, she is still a light in this dark world.

Sometimes I wish people would realize that SWers are people too. We are not sex crazed maniacs who are always wanting to get in bed with somebody. Especially when it comes to the end of the night, when a customer asks “what are you doing after this“ sir, I am going home, getting litty and going to bed. It’s really like they feel like we only think about sex. Personally, I hate the question about “is this turning you on?” During a dance… we are people too & have lives outside of dancing. We have goals.

Totally. It’s the “you’re just a stripper” comment for me. Because what does me being a stripper have to do with anything? Lmao. Like seriously, that’s the only thing they can really say to me & even then I’m like okay? I’m still independently financially stable.

I plan on taking my nail business to the top! Creating quality nails w/ quality art work. A salon w/ likeminded individuals who love working as a team to achieve bigger goals for the business.

Save your money bby, don’t spend it on nonsense. Stop letting people take advantage of the love you have to give. Friend or relationship wise.