What’s your name?
What do you do/what part(s) of the biz do you work in?
Stripper/Sugar Baby/Sexy Content Creator
If you’ve worked in more than one aspect of SW, which is your favorite and why?
Stripping would be my favorite. I love to perform, on stage and off. I have a strong presence when I’m dancing and I love watching clients become mesmerized while watching me. I also really enjoy meeting interesting people. From other dancers in the club or clients with funky stories or kinks they share with me. I love learning about peoples kinks lol
How have you made yourself stand out when working?
My walk! I love a bomb strut across the floor. It’s a combination of good posture and a steady glide and stride as if I’m floating across the room. Then sprinkle a little drag of the tip of your heel each time you switch. Definitely main character energy. Definitely catches attention.
What is your funniest story related to work?
I once had a man get on his knees in the middle of the club and start begging me to slap him as hard as I could. I told him not for free and he proceeded to empty his wallet out for me while still whining and begging. The entire club was watching this happen. I slapped the spit out that man lmfaoooo it was such a good night.
What is your best tip for making money at work?
Learn to identify your clientele. It's good to talk to as many people as possible, but also learning your "market" and their needs/wants helps establish connection. I find it helps me tailor the fantasy they want and I'm able sell it better. I think it's also a good way to come across new regulars. When I step out onto the floor I can usually identify who fits the type of clientele I have. When you get good at it, it starts feeling like easy money.
What has been your biggest challenge in the industry?
My biggest challenge in the club has been dealing with the toxic male ego. Learning to pick and choose my battles with management or clients whether it be dealing with harassment, verbal or emotional abuse or racism is a constant challenge. No matter how good the club, it's always present to some degree. I have to make a constant effort to not allow my precious energy to be misused when I find myself dealing with this. Also, when to spot/choose when it's time to check these men. It's a balance I strive to keep.
Sw is exhausting physically, mentally, and emotionally- How do you decompress and engage in self care in the face of that?
I keep a consistent food and gym schedule. Keeping a journal helps with consistent communication with myself and its one way I take care of my mind. I prioritize and listen very closely to my needs, whether it be my physically, mentally or emotionally. I keep strong boundaries in and outside of the club. I also make it a point to seek joy and rest. SW is so draining, but because of the difficulties I've faced in the club it's given me great opportunity to grow mentally, spiritually and emotionally on a day to day basis. I've fallen deeper in love with myself and taking care of myself because of it.
There is a lot of talk nowadays about sex work being “empowering.” Is this true for you and why or why not?
Hell yeah. SW allowed me to step into my feminine power and learn the amazing things I can do with it. How to nurture and protect it. How to heal with it. I found magic within my sensuality and SW gave the opportunity to unlock this. I've unlocked the hustler in me. My finesse. When I want it, I have it. Of course, it's not like this for all women. Unfortunately a lot of women find themself having this power and this magic sucked and drained from them. It's sad to witness. I'm grateful for the power I've found from sex work.
Where can we find you?
On IG: @vaehsplace