What’s your name?
How did you get started in the industry?
I started stripping. Got into Onlyfans, tried to do cam, but didn’t fully commit.
What do you do/what part(s) of the biz do you work in?
If you’ve worked in more than one aspect of SW, which is your favorite and why?
My favorite would have to be stripping surprisingly, I feel the safest at the club and being able to get cute and put on a performance. I really enjoy going on stage.
How have you made yourself stand out when working?
I always try to be on point. Hair, makeup, hygiene, outfit, shoes. I’m very slow and sensual so I take my stage very seriously lol I match the lights to whatever I’m wearing. I think advice wise, I would say be yourself. Everyone stands out when you’re yourself because no one is YOU 💗 whatever is meant for you, will be for YOU! Keeping that mindset in the club is very important.
What is a goal you’re proud you were able to reach while doing and because of SW?
I’m so thankful for so much because of dancing. Just being able to put gas in my car is a blessing. The lifestyle I have. Buying myself and my family what they need/want.
What is something you feel needs to change in the industry?
Stigma of being a dancer/ working in this industry and just hate in general, outside of our community and inside of it too. I don’t understand why girls hate on other girls that are literally in the same industry. Wish there was more unity.
What is your best tip for making money at work?
I’m sorry, but my advice is very “basic” but it’s so true! Be YOURSELF 💓 there’s only one you. No one is going to think exactly like you, do things like you. Especially in a industry where there’s so many girls. Stay positive, good and bad days happen to EVERYONE. Don’t worry about the next girl, worry about yourself and keep trying. Go to work to work, this isn’t high school or a party. Make your money, mind your business and work! Have an exit plan, or at least goals. I know I got caught up in the bullshit in the beginning too.
What has been something SW helped you with/encouraged you to do, or how has SW made you more confident?
Confidence! Omggg lol also people skills, especially with men.
What has been your biggest challenge in the industry?
In the beginning when I was a baby stripper, SAVING lol splurging is fine, but SAVE!!!
Sw is exhausting physically, mentally, and emotionally- How do you decompress and engage in self care in the face of that?
I decompress by venting if I need to about my day, and honestly just being home and in my bed.
Describe your best night ever working!
I would have to say recently! My club had a birthday party for me! There was literally hello kitty everywhere lol all my regulars got me the cutest gifts, all my girlfriends came into the club and my main stage set was about 2k 🎀
We all have a story about a babe in the industry who we loved and were inspired by from the moment we met her- tell us about her/them:
Alyssa! She is a QUEEN 💗 she usto work at my club and she was just literally breathtaking. When I thought about a woman, I thought of her! Always on point, hair, makeup, smell, outfits. The sweetest soul but also the sexiest person ever lol
What do you wish people knew about us (SWers), and about you personally as a SWer?
I feel like it’s always a lot of negativity and it’s crazy because I think we’re like the best kinds of girls.
Where can we find you?
On insta 💓 @_amethystxo